Thursday, May 10, 2012
Sadly, we have become a nation of smaller, less important issues. It’s a sign of impotence, of weakness, of a lack of leadership that should be realized within all of us individually and in our elected officials on our collective behalf. We can’t fix the big things, so we spend our time dancing around important, but lesser matters which, historically, will turn out to have been far less profound than we led ourselves to believe at the time. And in the meantime, the big problems we are neglecting are becoming increasingly severe.
Yesterday, President Obama came out in favor of same-sex marriage. Good for him. (If you sensed sarcasm, you’re a good reader.) It is, without question, a controversial concept that is very important, certainly to the gay and lesbian community, but also to some heterosexuals.
“Wait a minute, buster,” I can hear you asking. (Who calls anyone “buster” anymore?) “..Some heterosexuals? Some?! What about Tuesday’s primary in North Carolina where a constitutional amendment ‘to provide that marriage between one man and one woman is the only domestic legal union that shall be valid or recognized in this State’ passed overwhelmingly, 61% in favor, 39% opposed?? What about that?!”
You know, you’re absolutely right. According to the North Carolina Board of Elections, a whopping 1,303,876 votes were cast for the amendment, 832,219 votes against it. It’s impressive, until you realize that only 34.38% of North Carolina’s 6,296,759 registered voters even bothered, even cared enough about the issue of same-sex marriage to show up. This is one time the other two-thirds of the North Carolina electorate, when the “No Shows” got it right. For these two-thirds, the issue of same-sex marriage wasn’t, an “issue” that is.
In the words of Paul Simon, the great singer-songwriter, “Orangutans are skeptical of changes in their cages.” Well, we all – orangutans included – need to get over it. Homosexuality is real, enduring and entirely benign. We need to stop quibbling and be more respectful, tolerant and appreciative of the differences among us. “Marriage” is only a word. Gays and lesbians, on the other hand, are people.
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